My Connections to Play

Rain, Rain go away
Come again
some other day,

Little Johnny
wants to play.

 

Play gives children a chance to practice what they are learning (Fred Rogers)

Playful Childhood Memories

     Reminiscing back to my childhood playful days, all I can remember is that those were joyful times. My mother would always encourage my siblings and me to go outside and play. I can recall my other sister, brothers and I playing down on the country farm. We made mud cakes and let the sun dry them out, caught crickets and went fishing with them, rode the piggy backs, played ball, rode our bikes down the cotton path. There were so many other playful times I could mention that made me the individual I am today. All I know is there was never a boring moment.

     Recalling the playful life of my children, it in no way resembled mines. My daughter would always say it’s too hot or cold to go outside to play.  She played outside at school. While at home she played mostly with inside toys or was engaged in the TV or video games. My son enjoyed being outside. He and I would sometimes play basketball together. He would also invite his friends over to play football. He adored climbing trees and riding his bike.

     As an adult, I’m still a child at heart because I still enjoy playing. I engage in play with the children at school, and with my nieces and nephews.

Relationship Reflection

To be in your children's memories tomorrow, you have to be in their lives today.

Relationships/partnerships are important to me because when there is strong positive relationships/partnerships among one another it makes the day seem smoother. Doesn’t matter if it’s a relationship/partnership between husband/wife, father/children, mother/children, sister/brother aunt/uncle, pastor, coworker, teacher etc. We all need relationships/partnerships for the survival of life.

Several people with whom I currently have or had positive relationships and/or partnerships with are God who is the head of my life. My mother and father even though they are in heaven watching over me, these two people have left an impact on me that no one can take away.

Another relationship that I currently possess is my relationship with my kids. My kids and I shares a close bond, being a single parent allows us to spend lots of time together shopping, movies, ball games, church etc.

Other relationships outside my family include relationships/partnerships with coworkers, friends, teachers, pastor, which are all dear to me.